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15-12-2006, 06:56 AM
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Rep Power: 151   | What would you have done in my place? I want you all to read carefully and tell me if what I did was acceptable. Today as usual I was coming back from the University gym. Time was 10:15 pm. I have been walking down this same road to my rented house almost everyday for the past 2 months without any problems but today was different! I was on the phone with my brother and were discussing the good days ahead as I leave for india 'morrow. There were three white guys who went past me and said the f word a few times. Initially I didn't pay much attention to what all was happening but then I heard him shout some more filthy words. I stopped and turned around to realise they were walking up to me. Well, I am not the one to back out either. I walked up to them as well. distance covered now standing face to face. They surrounded me in a semi circle. They hurled more abuses at me and were saying that I was insulting them. I tried to explain I was only talking on the phone and that it was nothing about them. But the abusive talk continued and I realised they were drunk! I asked 1 are you drunk...he couldnt even stand properly...said to the others you are all drunk and should take it easy and move off. But abuses continued. Well, I totally lost my cool and hurled a few abuses at them as well... My brother kept asking me to move away but how could I? It would feel so insulting. While all this was going on I just prayed to God to make them touch me...since I just needed a reason to get physical...I was so so so angry I can't describe it here...Never wanted to be so angry...but they got to my nerves. there was another white male who went past us and when I said excuse me...he just waved and said I dont want to be a part of this...I thought this only happened in movies... I was confident that I could take them all but there was only one thing that weighted on my mind...what if one of them was carrying any sharp edged weapon...could I take that...I thought to myself fLLk that I will take it as it happens. In the end all they could do was abuse abuse and vonly verbal stuff...I had to put a stop to this shit...I said Fine mate I am sorry that I misunderstood you and you misunderstood me and that I am letting them go...the moment I said that they started shaking hands and all with me and saying what f...ing country am i from...f india f pakistan or f iraq...I said f...ing iraq...so what are you gonna do about it? Then I dont remember what all exactly was said but they started walking off and I started walking off and that was it. This was what happened... | |
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15-12-2006, 07:10 AM
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Rep Power: 151 | when I got back home EVer since I got back I have been furious at myself...whats the point in doing 60 kg bicep curls 100 kilo bench when I cant even stand up to defend my identity... I also felt they picked on me thinking I was an asian and will walk off without saying much...but they too were unable to handle the situation when I walked up to them...I mean I could have literally carried one of them with me back home and made him drink my piss...and then they would never pick on an asian ever again. but after talking to my brother who tried to keep me calm while on the phone during that event...this is what i feel now... It didnt get physical because they didnt...had they done anything I am sure I will do the necessary well...I get the reason to go physical in that case...they didnt have the guts and the only reason they stood upto me was because they were three and drunk...but i regret not getting my anger out. I realise now what sidhu might have gone through...I mean he didnt really mean to kill the person...but say like these guys annoyed me and got physical and if I were to hit them at any soft spot and they were to die...i would be guilty even if i didnt mean to kill... when I got home i cried for a little bit...felt insulted and kept asking why did i have to wait i could have taken the fight to them... But i am looking to meet my to be on sunday and my parents are looking forward to seeing me ....i am studying at a good uni and am doing great...i have too much to loose ...but should i always stay scared of the fact that i have too much to loose and let these pathetic goons get away with it... I tell you what...i am ok now. but i still want you all to give your thoughts...if you guys have to scrutinize me you are free to...probably it will make me a better person... but i am proud to be a sikh...punjabi...jatt....and indian...i am not ashamed of any one of them... i walk with pride and walk with my strong back... another thing...my best friend is british...in fact all my good friends from the gym and uni are british and germans...i guess indians dont like workin out...thats why i dont seemany in there... so i await your thoughts on this... | |
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19-12-2006, 07:21 PM
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Rep Power: 553  | Re: What would you have done in my place? Hello Viper I dont know you very much but from your posts you seem to be a good youngman who says much in less words. Maine isko 2-3 times pada hai aur mujhe sach mein bahoot achha laga  Aapne first of all khud wrong intiate kuch bhi nahi kiya aur yehi right bhi tha Aapne jo kiya vo us time ke liye achha tha kyunke aapne wapis bhi aana tha aur koi legal hassle bhi ho sakti thi  As those guys were drunk they did not have much on their side. You did what was fit for the situation yeh mera opinion hai and good luck aap apne baare mein aur apni 'to be' ke baare mein bhi to batao na 
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19-12-2006, 11:19 PM
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Rep Power: 0 | Re: What would you have done in my place? Viper 22, You must realise a saying, Ki paraye desh mein jakar ek Raja ko bhi BeIzzat hona pad sakta hai. Aur phir west, they are totally diverse culturally, socially and emotionally, So better to prevent and forget, and Since they were drunk, Drunkens are Devils, no matter caste/creed or whatever religion. Dont take it personally, they were drunk and out of their minds, it CAN happen to you in india too, if you face a stupid drunk here too, So better prevent loosing your temper at such moments and tackle with more wit, Dont forget, reacting and going physical in other country can make u in high trouble abnd especially when you are planning to move other places in next Days, it can ruin your nearby days plans. Just try to prevent and forget such instances ASAP, Because again this is happenned when we are not in our land and we are responsible for our own, family's and nation's dignity. | |
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27-12-2006, 11:00 PM
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Rep Power: 82 | Re: What would you have done in my place? hi viper jatt well i dnt agree with the people that just gave you suggestion......... you could have let it go only if you are a very calm patient man, i know gym guys are much more aggressive and voilent then a normal guy.........so it was not your cup of tea to see other people piss on you .......thinking you weak and harmless.............. how dare they ...................!!!! it is good not to fight , it is good to be a gandhi sometimes, but only when you are capable to take it.......... this way you have really hurt your ego, kind of mental dissatisfaction with yourself, and you r soul, they didnt hurt you externally , but i can really understand you are badly hurt from inside............ so my suggestion , fight or hurt atleast one of them, so inthe end if you are beaten inthe end , other guys would think twice before getting with another sikh guy again....... now they must be thinking they insulted a sikh guy and he just couldnt do anything excpet words......... i know all your female freinds and parents would tell you not to fight......... but dear life is only once .............either live it like a king or just kill yourself from inside............ choice is yours................... my option is only one................an eye for an eye...........tooth for a tooth........... sometime i take both the eys for one eye............hehe.........my style...... | |
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28-12-2006, 11:09 PM
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he will keep on thinking .....thinking........thinking........like his stupid british friends............ if he was having punjabi friends then he wont have seen this rediculous incident................ viper take a gun, shoot all the three guys............always fight with brain.........100 kg bench press is nothing........ take my case , in my gym 100kg bench is warm up set with 50 reps each for all bodybuilders............. you need to grow up more in order to fight with bare hands..........dt forget to drink milk with bournvita............  | ||
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29-12-2006, 12:40 AM
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OHh...bewkoof Insaaann bahar fooki badmashi nahi chaldi... naa taan ethe kise da chacha Police ch aa, te naa koi mama... ...ik vaar thodde te charge lagg gaye, fir jail jana painda.. te fir saari umar thode record te oh gal chadd jandi aa... kite job laini, jaa kite vi jao... te bahar diyan jails ch..kamm bade puthe-2 hunde ne.. tainu ehda idea koi ni hai.. | ||
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| Re: What would you have done in my place? Am sure Viper will be here anytime soon, he is now back in India and will be joining us very soon! Please keep pouring...
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29-12-2006, 10:37 PM
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lagda hai tu kisae na kisae naal panga lya hunaa.......taaaanhi tanu enna pata baharli police baarae......!!! secondly it is amazing that you are really taking my words seriously ............ so you like reading my posts ...........haaaan !!!! that too very seriously................ koi naa yaar, it is better to stay in jail and pass life there, atleast you can live in peace , I am actually finding a reason to go and have fun in jail...... ..................otherwise taan war has seen end of dead.........  | ||
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