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Old 31-01-2005, 09:42 AM   #1 (permalink)
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THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
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Old 31-01-2005, 09:43 AM   #2 (permalink)
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do u think age matters ?????????
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Old 31-01-2005, 10:46 AM   #3 (permalink)
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age doesnt matter


love is blind
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Old 31-01-2005, 10:50 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: plz tell me?

Originally Posted by aria
HI
THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
THANKS U ALL

Yaar toon ki bal gayi , mainu te pata vi ni laga.... .....
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Old 31-01-2005, 12:18 PM   #5 (permalink)
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ye tru luv is blind for sure .....
but blind de naal naal its deaf and dumb as well
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Old 31-01-2005, 12:46 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by aria
HI
THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
THANKS U ALL

well dear phela tah ih dekho ki where u stands ok then watch if u can handle this situtaion while it has 2 cum 4 u both yah everybody said love is blind but fer we in every relation u shuld know sum limits otherwise definately sum one sumwhere creating a little probs 4 u both i mean it happens when this things cumes in anybody lifes. so better see if they r not agree 4 u both wht else u can do except any negative way.

BEST OF LUCK 2 U BOTH
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Old 31-01-2005, 01:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by aria
HI
THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
THANKS U ALL

hey in love age doesnt matter at all...and je tuhada pyar sachha hai for each other then no body can stop you ..Problem is everywhere in life ...par je tusi problem toh dar gaye taan kujh ni milna ...yaar sachha pyar kise kise nu naseeb hunda hai ..nahi taan aaj kal bas har taraf pyar de naam teh dhokha hee hai... jad kisi nu sachha pyar ho jaanda hai taan himmat vee appe aa hee jaandi hai ....je tusi eh soch ke peeche hat jaoge ki yaar is vich taan badi problems aaan waaliyan ..then my dear i am sorry to say that your luv is not true for each other ....aur mere hisaab naal jisnu tusi sachhe dil naal pyar karde ho tuhanu shaadi vee usi naal kar leni chahiye ...i know may be some ppl wont agree with me on my this point of view but i just expressed my feelings .


Best of luck both of ya
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Originally Posted by kane_29
well dear phela tah ih dekho ki where u stands ok then watch if u can handle this situtaion while it has 2 cum 4 u both yah everybody said love is blind but fer we in every relation u shuld know sum limits otherwise definately sum one sumwhere creating a little probs 4 u both i mean it happens when this things cumes in anybody lifes. so better see if they r not agree 4 u both wht else u can do except any negative way.

BEST OF LUCK 2 U BOTH
hi dear first thanka 4 utsd me and my prb :o plz yell me if we get marry in r futur will aged make any difference in betwwen my love
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Old 31-01-2005, 02:38 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by aria
HI
THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
THANKS U ALL
Are you sure you talking about love , if yes then why you wasting time on these illogical talks . Love never see`s who are you , what are you , where are you, i mean it see`s nothing.If you got these doubtory thoughts in your mind then i must tell ya its not love.Baby don`t think so much that you get too late for everything. So don`t give it a second thought , just go for it . Best of luck .
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Old 01-02-2005, 01:15 AM   #10 (permalink)
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First of all lemme tell you all... yaaron i just love this thing of LC members that wenever sum1 sumwhere is in trouble.... help is jsut a post away :-) lol wel it really feels nice to have so many gud nice caring frends around u so that u can count on them at time of need.... thanks everyone...

ok lets talk abt Aria's post....Aria's age is 19 as it says in her pro... and the question askd has girl's age 16 so i think its not Aria whos in love.... lol nice point i caught haina?? :-p lets get serious now

Well yes this thing is very true that Age Doesnt Matters, As Long As Hearts Are Together.... In true love, Age is jsut a number... If u truly love sum1, u love his/her soul... body is jus a medium 4 two souls to interact... wut i mean to say is that soul doesnt have any age.. its the body that has age... But if u r in true love, age is jsut a number... I know a very close frend of mine who has a gf who is 13 yrs older than him... They are in so deep n true love, it makes me so happpy to see them n think abt them.


Age does not protect You from Love,
but Love, to some extent, protects You from Age


I wud like to suggest that in the cases like this one wich has a big age difference, both of the persons have to b open minded and really mature. Both of these things will provide a better understanding b/w a couple. Mind you this relationship will not be as simple as a regular one. In this case the gurl is 16, so m sorry to say the girl mite not be much mature.. One really has to b prepared for all the negative things that may come in their way as a couple. Not many people will support this kind of couple as u c our society is too senstive to accept changes or different kinda things. Your really have to make a strong stand in life n career so as to fight all the odds. For example if dere is a marriage b/w a celebrity couple wid same age diff (13yrs) most of them will accept the couple but if this kinda marriage happens in our middle class society (dunno if u belong to middle class) most of the people gonna oppose it. But if you are a strong person in life n career then things may b different in the middle class family scenario.


You will also have to figure out that is it Love or just an Attraction! See in adolscence, one is attracted to the person(s) of opposite sex. Well its really hard to figure out for an individual whether its Attraction or Love.. But at the same time it is the most imprtant thing!

At last abt the marriage thing... In your case i think the girl will still have to wait for 2-3 years as she is not 18 yet. So she just cant marry anyone legally. I think the girl still has 2-3 years wid her to figure out the things that mite affect the relationship, its Pros n Cons, think abt all kinda situations that the couple may face in future. Moreover I think even family wont b able marry the girl off as shes 16. Bus hor kuch ni aa reha halle mind vich.. as soon as i feel like adding sumthg to this thread, I will post :-)


Anyways Best of Luck to the Girl n Boy..

KHUD HI KO KAR BULAND ITNA... K HAR TAKDEER SE PEHLE KHUDA TUJHSE PUCHE.. BTA TERI RZA KYA HAI
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Old 01-02-2005, 01:26 AM   #11 (permalink)
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lolz no ........ maybe shez da 1 .... but she kept her age while registering as 19 ... cuz sumtimes site wont let u register if ur underage .......

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Originally Posted by aria
HI THERE EVERY ONE U ALL KNOW ABOUT LOVE AND A DIFFERENCE BETWEN A MARRIGE PLZ TELL ME THAT IF THERE IS AGUY OF 28 YRS OLD AND GIRL OF 16 YRS OLD THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER BADLY THEIRBOTH PARENTS KNOW ABUT THEN THEY SAY ITS OK TO BE FRD BUT THEY BOTH FAMILY IS NOT ANGREY TO MARRY SO TELL ME WHAT THEY HVE TO LIVE TOGHTER
PLZ LET NE KNOW ABUT UR ALL THINKINGS
THANKS U ALL
Baki sab tan theek aa 22.. par Punjab Police ton bach ke rahin.. es case ch ander hon de chances dikhde aa mainu.. Kuri nabalig aa.. te ohde ghar de tere te case kar dakde aa.. so be very careful about what you do.

As far as love is concerned.. I agree with most comments about love being independent of age 'n stuff.. but I would personally feel quite uncomfortable in such a relationship. I’m 26.. and to look at a girl 10 years younger than me.. and think about love ‘n a relationship just sounds wrong to me. I don’t see how can I ever fall in love with a gal that age. I know that most of you here will disagree with me.. but that’s just me.. I couldn’t imagine myself in such a relationship.

I would also like add that at the age of 16, majority of the people don’t know what exactly do they want in life. The definition of life changes a lot during and after the teenage. Aria, I’m not doubting the love the two might have between them.. but what she is and what she expects from you and from life in general is bound to change over the next few years. This change can be good for the relationships.. and it can also be the opposite. You might think on the same/similar level now, but it might change as she grows up. Love might still be there, but love is not always enough for a sucessful relationship.

By saying all this, I don't mean to put the girl down or anything. Some people can be very mature even at 16 years of age. That however still does not mean that nothing will change in her personality as she gorws up in age.

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I AGREE WITH ALL MY LC FRNDS THAT LOVE IS BLIND BUT............................................... AS PER MY OPINION
LOVE DOESN'T MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND, BUT IT CERTAINLY MAKES THE RIDE WORTHWHILE.

LOVE IS TWO BODIES N ONE SOUL.

FRNDS IF YOU ARE NOT SATISFIED WITH MY OPINION PLZ DO TELL ME.

TAMANA


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Originally Posted by tamanna_love
I AGREE WITH ALL MY LC FRNDS THAT LOVE IS BLIND BUT............................................... AS PER MY OPINION
LOVE DOESN'T MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND, BUT IT CERTAINLY MAKES THE RIDE WORTHWHILE.

LOVE IS TWO BODIES N ONE SOUL.

FRNDS IF YOU ARE NOT SATISFIED WITH MY OPINION PLZ DO TELL ME.

TAMANA


YEAH U R RIGHT TAMANA THANKS A LOT
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