IS IT SO EASY TO BREAK FRIENDSHIP AND FORGET SOMEBODY U CRIED FOR ?????? HUH

[great_gambler]

Hi all,

I want to know one thing; please give ur hearty comments

YOu met somebody online while u are in totally different countries. You chat , u talk and become great friends. So good u talk on ISD calls.

Well one of you, cry when other say that he wont be able to talk in future. I mean u get so close to each other. Well, talks are suspended

And one day by god's grace both of you are in same country, just couple of hundred miles away. U feel new passion.

U start talking again and one of u feels and say that other has changed a bit and STOP TALKING.

My question:

IS it so easy to stop talking and break friendship when you get more closer. I mean if friendship is so unvaluable then why we crave for it.

Please comment what shud have been done. Shud both of these friends try to be friends again or just keep on ignoring each other.

( Girl is from NC and guy is from NY (chd native ) (hyderabadi - fun sake).

Hope you all who value friendship will reply

Thank you very much

[tehsin]

awwwww..........i wish edaan da kise naal na hove......... its really difficult to forget someone u cried for....


But y to cry for the person who does'nt deserve ur luv.......who does'nt care for youu.......... Bhaut aukha hai.... i know.....

[great_gambler]

yaar she cried and she left.. Not me. She cried cuz she loved me.

i mean first she cried when i reached a few miles to her. she left

I know i am bad

[jƆï_gRå¢È£µL...]

u shud hve talkd

[munda_wakhre_type_da]

well bro nope it ain dat easy man......

maybe gal di koi prob howe.. i man maybe she has started seeing some other guy or smthin like dat and maybe her guy mite b too possesive types.. dat mite be da reasons too..

i know it hurts bt bro its too hard for anybody out dere too leave or move away from dere loved ones bt yaaar circumstances make ppl to act dat way...

so try nt to assume smthin bad bout her ... maybe circumstances has made her like dat.. try to move on..

[jƆï_gRå¢È£µL...]

yup u rite man

[great_gambler]

Originally Posted by munda_wakhre_type_da well bro nope it ain dat easy man...... maybe gal di koi prob howe.. i man maybe she has started seeing some other guy or smthin like dat and maybe her guy mite b too possesive types.. dat mite be da reasons too.. i know it hurts bt bro its too hard for anybody out dere too leave or move away from dere loved ones bt yaaar circumstances make ppl to act dat way... so try nt to assume smthin bad bout her ... maybe circumstances has made her like dat.. try to move on..

It was not guy's prob. she wanted to be my girl when i was in india. She even wanted to come meet me but i stopped her saying its not k.

She said she want to but i thought it might not be a good idea.

Well after 7 months I called her and told her I am in USA. She was amazed and said I didnt told her . truth is I was so busy and just wanted to surprise her. After talkin couple of days she said I am changed aftre comin to states. I do not know what the hell that meant.

And she stoped talkin.. I mean i even dunno know the reason.

She is still member of LC I pm her but she didnt replied.

[aman_a2 7]

Originally Posted by great_gambler It was not guy's prob. she wanted to be my girl when i was in india. She even wanted to come meet me but i stopped her saying its not k. She said she want to but i thought it might not be a good idea. Well after 7 months I called her and told her I am in USA. She was amazed and said I didnt told her . truth is I was so busy and just wanted to surprise her. After talkin couple of days she said I am changed aftre comin to states. I do not know what the hell that meant. And she stoped talkin.. I mean i even dunno know the reason. She is still member of LC I pm her but she didnt replied.

hey did loved her or u still lov her or u just treated her as a frnd n like dat
after knowing dis i can say nything

[great_gambler]

Originally Posted by aman_a27 hey did loved her or u still lov her or u just treated her as a frnd n like dat after knowing dis i can say nything

Say considering all 3 of them

[aman_a2 7]

u loved her as a frnd or more den dat
its diff 2 cosider all 3

[ChillPill]

All I can say here is that only u2 can talk and discuss this problem... if there was no love in both directions.. than I can understand its no use... but I sense some sense of belonging on both yr sides.... If u think she is worth more than a fren.... do try to communicate with her... m sure there are reasons why she commented that u have changed once u went 2 states...... neways pls do try and get yr feelings across 2 her...... by self or go thru another fren..... I wish u all the best dear......