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Name: Reb

Cake n Candles: Born on 16/06/1956 as Ranjit kaur

Birthplace: Selangor, Malaysia

Nationality: Singaporean

Religion: Sikhism

Education: Secretarial Diploma

Work: Administration Manager in restaurant

Likes: like to surf the net, make new frens, dancing & taking long walks with my dog

Dislikes: hate people who make stupid comments & just wanna create problems for others

<<<<<<<FAVOURITES>>>>>>>

Colour: Maroon

Parfum: Paris

Holiday spot: India

Car: BMW

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§åfíŷăĥ We all know dat u r happily married n got 2 sons..wut we dunno is HOW you met ur dream guy?
ŔĕΒ well it was at my cousin's birthday... we sort of exchanged phone numbers
ŔĕΒ I was arund 21 at that time
§åfíŷăĥ ooooo........love at da first sight eh
ŔĕΒ not exactly.... sort of jus had some chemistry and than over the year we used to talk on the phone n became closer and later started dating
ŔĕΒ got married at the age of 23
§åfíŷăĥ awwww.......daz so romantic
ŔĕΒ yea it was. lolz....jus imagine that in july its gonna b 27 years
§åfíŷăĥ Who proposed first? U or him?
ŔĕΒ He proposed thru his parents really. They wanted a pic of me... it started from there.
§åfíŷăĥ wow......sooo made in heaven
ŔĕΒ yea n the best part of my marriage is my 2 darling heroes
§åfíŷăĥ u bet
ŔĕΒ in my next life... i wanna make sure these 2 heroes will be my sons over n over again. thru good times n bad they r always arund me
§åfíŷăĥ *smiles*
§åfíŷăĥ u got 2 sweet boys, do u miss having a girl?
ŔĕΒ nah i dont miss having a girl realli..because the amount of love n respect i get from my sons will last me my lifetime... so not missing any girl
ŔĕΒ i been thru a lot yaar.... especially wen my elder bro n father died on the same day some 21 years ago.... in a horrible car accident i thought thats the end of my life... but we pulled thru
§åfíŷăĥ ahhhh.....wud u lik to share...or...
ŔĕΒ during that tragedy we family members became strong and survived. We pulled thru .... and they are truly missed each day.
§åfíŷăĥ m sowie to hear dat Reb
ŔĕΒ its alrite safi. it has made me a much stronger person in life. the amount of love my father and elder brother gave me no one can do that ever.
§åfíŷăĥ i think daz y God sent so many lcianz in ur life
ŔĕΒ yea true...since i joined LC my life has been so much richer. In LC i met many good frens like you and the rest dear.

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§åfíŷăĥ how do u approach life n problems?
ŔĕΒ i think very positively. i live one day at a time…knowing that the next day will be much happier as well. I learned to share my laughter with everyone that i meet each day. Ofcourse I do have my share of problems, but I dont show it on my face…instead I laugh all the time... ask Balraj who has met me......
ŔĕΒ I dont know why but I can mix with any age
§åfíŷăĥ i tell u why....b'coz u haf an open mind
§åfíŷăĥ*smiles* i believe u
§åfíŷăĥ your greatest challange
ŔĕΒ my gr8test challenge is to make sure that my 2 sons go thru university education... they dont have to turn to anyone for any assistance... I will always b there 4 them
§åfíŷăĥwut do u value most?
ŔĕΒ my upbringing. i come from a home where the father was so highly educated n my mum jus a normal human being... (with primary education from India)
§åfíŷăĥ i'll gif u few choices.....n u tell me wut do u value most(from given choices).
1. peace of mind, order 2. understanding 3. purpose & contribution 4. love n connection
ŔĕΒ without thinking much i wud choose understanding its important to understand each other in life.... to give and also receive is part of understanding each other's territory
§åfíŷăĥ if u cud marry one guy from lc, who wud it b?
ŔĕΒ gosh they are all so young...lolz... but since u r asking me to choose... will choose GARRY msc....lolz
§åfíŷăĥ why Garry??
ŔĕΒ cause he once said it as well.... if i was younger n not married he will propose 2. He is one fren who cares a lot abt me.... will always send me offlines when I am in trouble at LC.....
§åfíŷăĥ i c
Ýăšĥ second chioce
ŔĕΒ if i say Balraj... u wont laugh rite?????
§åfíŷăĥ NOPE
ŔĕΒ i wud choose him because I have met him n he is very caring and sweet
Ýăšĥ hmm...third choice!!
ŔĕΒ third choice will be no one. i hav made the best 2 choices...most 2 wonderful men in my life. my 2 good frens always

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§åfíŷăĥ if u r made admin for one day, wut changes wud u lik to make
ŔĕΒ no changes....maybe will have to think of that as yet... but I wont take sides for sure...will investigate the matter and than decide wot to do...wont be banning anyone just because someone wants that to happen...nah not my kind of authority
§åfíŷăĥ is der anything dat u dun lik about LC..
ŔĕΒ been watching LC very closely in fact....I dont like the way Lcians spoil the threads...going off TOPICS MOST OF THE TIME.....IF NOT THEY ARE SPOILING THE POLL SECTIONS.. everyone puts in their effort in posting.....
§åfíŷăĥ I know wut u mean...
ŔĕΒ they sort of have to bear in mind that we are voluntary peeps with little time on our hands.... we sort of work as well 2...
§åfíŷăĥ u work in a restaurant, tak care of ur family...n den lc...how do u strike a proper balance?
ŔĕΒ well u see my day starts at 7 am...... till 9.30 i am doing all the famili part...than make my way to my job from 11.30am-11.30pm and than reach home around 12.30 or so. well i got used to this now…first it was realli tuff...but at a blink of my eye I cud manage without any one's help
Ýăšĥ wow!
ŔĕΒ yea n jus imagine i cook B4 i leave my home....
§åfíŷăĥ u r so balanced
ŔĕΒ everything is done... no one has to do nething.. except wash their own plates n stuff
§åfíŷăĥ fair nuff
ŔĕΒ on my off days i surf the net .......most of the time...
§åfíŷăĥ ever stress out???
ŔĕΒ only wen my knee hurts.... other than tat I can survive
§åfíŷăĥ how do u release ur stress by the way
ŔĕΒ i hug my sons..... each morng wen they hug me i get the most wonderful feeling in this world.......and i talk to my colleagues abt how they can improve themselves... so stress is released in some of these ways. We are always looking for new challenges and amidst tat I forget all that i do for everyone. its the pleasure at the end of the day....which makes me charge myself again n again. like an everready battery
§åfíŷăĥ is dat also da reason behind ur youthful lukz
ŔĕΒ yea u can say tat...i dont take things at heart...i laugh away any misery. Sumtimes my colleagues say reb pls cry
Ýăšĥ cry???
ŔĕΒ i mean they want me to cry rather than laugh all the time. they say its gud to cry as well
§åfíŷăĥ ok
ŔĕΒ i cant, unless i see a sad movie
Ýăšĥ ohhh...ur the bubbly kind
ŔĕΒ yea always grinning n smiling. that even the customers say who is that lady behind the cash machine?
ŔĕΒ have some admirers as well
Ýăšĥ wow...how do u deal with them
ŔĕΒ well i sort of smile n take care of their bills and they always think i am the partner in that business
Ýăšĥ wats the most expensive thing on the menu
§åfíŷăĥ Yash...where is dis feat. goin.......MENU
Ýăšĥ she has restaurant....
ŔĕΒ well there is one dish called Jingra Macher Malai curry. It’s an bengali dish
Ýăšĥ Yummmmyy!
Ýăšĥ wats ur fav dish on the menu?
ŔĕΒ its prawns in coconut milk and served in one of those green coconut shell. i also like the macher paturi.. (its steamed fish in mustard) its really cool
Ýăšĥ Im getting this amazing aroma in my nose...and water in my mouth
ŔĕΒ let me treat u guys wen u happen to come tis way
§åfíŷăĥ okkkkkkkk daz it. no more rest. n dishes here.
ŔĕΒ hehehe time for yr snacks or wot
Ýăšĥ*makes a sad face*
ŔĕΒ *laughs*
§åfíŷăĥ yes...m hungry now*annoyed*
ŔĕΒ awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww safi.....sorrie for making u hungry
§åfíŷăĥ *smiles*Let’s continue...
ŔĕΒ yea sure go ahead safi

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§åfíŷăĥ haf u ever smoked?
ŔĕΒ nah i never got to that. but i do drink socially... esp. red wine n they say it makes u horny but so far it doesnt to me
§åfíŷăĥ i love Wine too.
Ýăšĥ red wine!
Ýăšĥ do u have some vintage?
ŔĕΒ yea we do carry wines from south africa and Australia...thru a wine dealer
§åfíŷăĥ Red wine is soo gud fo ur skin. now we noe ur secret Reb.....>>> glowing skin=wine
ŔĕΒ areyyyyyyy its not a secret yaar...i thought balraj wud have spill the beans by now
ŔĕΒ yea rite red wine n reb go hand in hand
ŔĕΒ red red reb drinking red wine n going all red...sirf tumari wine
*all three laughs...*
ŔĕΒ well guys now that my secret is out... m sure many peeps will be sending me bottles of red wine for my coming 50th birthday
Ýăšĥ wow!!
§åfíŷăĥ u'll b 50 soon...how do u feel Reb
ŔĕΒ hey m gonna cross half a century soon.....
ŔĕΒ well wot can i say... i feel that I have been arund and have enjoyed my life 2 the fullest but I dont want GOD to take me away tat soon.. wanna see my 2 sons get married first and maybe hold my first grandchild
Ýăšĥ cool
§åfíŷăĥ got sum special planz??
ŔĕΒ well m gonna go to Phuket for my 50th birthday. It’s a present from my sis. so will make use of that chance
Ýăšĥ nice place
§åfíŷăĥ awww....sweet
ŔĕΒ other than tat my colleagues gonna party the whole nite away with me. so lets c wot happens during that day
Ýăšĥ u were born in the year 1956. u must have seen 1969 war in Vietnam.
ŔĕΒ oh guys why talk abt war wen u can talk abt love
§åfíŷăĥ EXACTLYYYYYYYYYYYYY...talk bout loveeee. LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL......war is UGLY
Ýăšĥ ok...love...who was ur first crush Reb?
ŔĕΒ it was a filipino fren in the same class..was abt 16 then
§åfíŷăĥ ooo....:">
Ýăšĥ did u tell him?
ŔĕΒ we sort of exchange letters n he came to my home for my 16th birthday party...n we were watched over by my dad
§åfíŷăĥ uh oh...wut happ. nex?
ŔĕΒ my dad made me give back the perfume which he gave me for my birthday...so mean my dad was....in front of so many frens
Ýăšĥ oh...
§åfíŷăĥ ahhhh SADDDD
ŔĕΒ that guy jus took it and went off....next day he gave it back to me in class n i hid it
Ýăšĥ u must have been very upset?
ŔĕΒ was actually angry with dad but he than explained why he did tat. said in our community girls dont accept such gifts from strangers
Ýăšĥ hmmmm
ŔĕΒ but that guy was no stranger in my world. well i guess parents were sort of over protective at that time. now i give my sons freedom all the time..... as long as they dont get hurt
§åfíŷăĥ how did it end??
ŔĕΒ we wrote for many years till he went off to join the american army than didnt hear from him. dont know... sumtimes i do think if we got married.. wot wud my life b. nice looking guy.. we studied for 3 years in same school
§åfíŷăĥ if u dun mind me askin..do u regret marryin ur husband..m sure u dun..but still...wen we go bak n think bout it sumwhere in our mind we go....ahhh wish i cud...
Ýăšĥ I dunno if its a fair question
ŔĕΒ u see safi the only regret i had was wen my dad n bro died. i felt that if i was engaged i wud break that engagement cause of my mum. i wanna take care of her all her life.... she gave me so much. i cud sacrifice my happiness 4 her...
§åfíŷăĥ hmm tru..i got ma answer
ŔĕΒ until today i am her best fren. she can talk to me abt nething
Ýăšĥ hmm...I like my mum too...we indians r like that
ŔĕΒ but i was married with 1 son and another one on the way.... so i had no choice
ŔĕΒ well in indian homes no one takes care of the mother (like daughter n mum)
ŔĕΒ so its not accepted......... in our community... thats why my sis never got married as yet. she wanna devout her life to our mum

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§åfíŷăĥ b4 i forget......ur mess. for lcianz plz
Ýăšĥ Yeah...
ŔĕΒ my message will be Lcians are the best people I have evar met..... we do have some differences now and than... but still my love for each one of u is so special.. u r my other famili and LC is my second home... god bless u all and may u live a gud life like mine. luv u all veri much.. and thank u for giving me the respect on LC always and so much of love as well....
Ýăšĥ bravo !
§åfíŷăĥthank u so much Reb
ŔĕΒ thanks safi n yash....... u guys rock LC yaar
Ýăšĥ thank you
§åfíŷăĥ Thanx
ŔĕΒ ur welcome both
Ýăšĥ so..when did u cum to know abt LC?
ŔĕΒ some time back...saw it while I was browsing the net
Ýăšĥ hmmm...
ŔĕΒ so i happened to join and garry was the first to ask me to add him on yahoo. From there each second I spend my time on LC was so beautiful...as beautiful as the hearts of Lcians.... 3 cheers to all Lcians... realli a gr8 famili
Ýăšĥ who is fav person on LC?
§åfíŷăĥ Reb juz say Yash...mak diz lil baby happy
§åfíŷăĥ *smiles*
Ýăšĥ *makes a sad face*
ŔĕΒ from the whole list..... its actually YASH
§åfíŷăĥ seeee
Ýăšĥ I knew it!!......u rock!!
ŔĕΒ CAUSE I KNOW ONE INCIDENT WHERE HE DIDNT WANT ME TO LEAVE LC...i cant 4get that day n never will... until today wen i think of what he did.... to keep me arund on LC... i cry cause no one has ever done tat for me. HE TOOK ALL THE BLAME ON HIMSELF
§åfíŷăĥ YES....dat incident touched me too
ŔĕΒ i realli love u yash
Ýăšĥ me too...

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'm sowie da thread got deleted.....reposted it.
u guyz can post ur feedbacks again.
Sowie once again.

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Dear Reb...
It was really impressive to go through your interview... As your younger brother, I feel really proud... something which I started way back in 1999-2000 would mean so much to so many... Indeed gives a great feeling... I would just say that it is really an honour to have you as a mentor, guide and a senior ALWAYS...
My sincere warm-hearted wishes to you - may your dreams come true and may you be surrounded by caring people always and may you keep spreading smiles and happiness!

And a special mention of thanks to our interview team, Safiyah and Yash...

Cheers!!!