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[Trishy]

New age courtship mantaras





You like this guy/ girl and want to get to know him/ her better. Great!



How do you go about wooing this special someone?



When is the right time to pop the question



Just follow our Three Phase plan and hook on to the guy/ girl of your dreams!



Phase One

This is the first step towards building a relationship of any kind.

You need to figure out if you gel with the person or not. Is he/ she as nice and likeable from close quarters as from afar? Could the glitter really be gold?

This is also the easiest part of the Three Phase plan. All you need to do is:

i. Be a part of the same group as him/ her. Suggest meeting up more often and go to different places -- this will show you how he/ she behaves under different circumstances.

. ii. Be a silent observer from time to time and take note of his/ her flaws too.

iii. Interact in a friendly way and be yourself all the time. If you realise he/ she is your kind of person, it's time to move into Phase Two.



Phase Two

You are spending a lot of time together, but at this point it is as part of a group. How will you feel when you spend time alone, just the two of you?

i. Find reasons to be alone with him/ her. Indulge in common activities like jogging/ swimming/ gymming, etc. The more your interests match, the more opportunities you have.

ii. Wear his/ her favourite colour (only if you can carry it off).

iii. If you play a musical instrument, play his/ her favourite song. But please don't stare at the person while singing or it might just scare him/ her off. Instead, maintain eye contact for a few seconds more than usual, then break off and look elsewhere. Subtlety is the key.

iv. Don't worry if you don't play an instrument. When you go out partying, dedicate a song anonymously to him/ her, using a pseudonym. Then, halfway through the song, let him/ her know the song was dedicated by you. Do this discreetly; make sure no one is listening in.

vi. Gifts should be slightly more personal in nature -- like favourite music CDs instead of just any CD or a book by a favourite author. Make it sound like you picked them up in passing.

vii. Personalise his/ her call on your phone with your favourite love song, and then tell him/ her how his/ her call makes you sing. Now that you have struck up adequate rapport, it's time to move to the highly crucial Phase Three





Phase Three

You will make out if the person is not interested in you. If this is the case, he/ she will avoid being alone with you and will not want to interact much with you even when you are in a group.

If he/ she accepts your overtures and is positive about them, it's time to move to the last phase. This is when you convey more openly that you like him/ her and want for him/ her to be more than just a friend.

Creativity can make this ride more fun. Here are some ideas, as well as real life examples, that have had great results:

i. Find things in the person that are not apparent to all, then compliment him/ her about them. It could be the way the person's clothes are always well-coordinated, how the accessories match, how chivalrous he is, how elegant/ graceful she is, how he tips the doorman -- even when no one is looking, how she says thank you to the driver... Simple things that sometimes might seem silly, but they mean a lot. Do be honest, though. False flattery can be seen through instantly, and you could end up losing the person's respect.

ii. Show him/ her that you trust him/ her. Share little secrets and thoughts. Show that you place high value on his/ her opinion and advice.

... Inviting that special person into your life isn't so difficult after all.

[SantaClauz]

tumne bahut achhi achhi baatein batayi hai.....
tum abb sayani baatein karne lag padi ho

[Trishy]

Originally Posted by love_34 tumne bahut achhi achhi baatein batayi hai..... tum abb sayani baatein karne lag padi ho

toh kya pehle main buddhu thi

[B4u_Hunk]

Mujeh toh aisa hi lagta tha par aab tum akalmand ho gayi ho

[Trishy]

Originally Posted by B4u_Hunk Mujeh toh aisa hi lagta tha par aab tum akalmand ho gayi ho

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aa ta guddi ne changia gala dasiyaaaaaaa

[gambler4u]

oye yaar aah ki chal reha hai!!!! mainu te kuch vi samajh nahi aa reha hai. will some1 let me know wat is going on ??????? I'm new on this site. so don't know much abt this.

thanx

[B4u_Hunk]

Gambler 22 ji This is a Thread. It's wat u have posted is called posting in this thread.

So watch each & every thread & Keep posting

[Trishy]

Originally Posted by B4u_Hunk Gambler 22 ji This is a Thread. It's wat u have posted is called posting in this thread. So watch each & every thread & Keep posting

tum bhi badi samajhdaari waali baatein kar lete ho hehehehehehe

[SantaClauz]

sab samajdar ho gaye mere saath rehate rehate

[Trishy]

Originally Posted by love_34 sab samajdar ho gaye mere saath rehate rehate