Flirting Fundaas

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FLIRTING FUNDAS

Are you perfect? Read on…

If you think you are flawless, you need to check out these five easy exercises to revamp your flirting skills and you may feel a long way to go!

• Smile at one complete stranger everyday. Increase the number to two within 10 days. Make sure you make eye contact and your smile is sunny, open and friendly.
• Never mind if there is no response (they don’t smile back!). One of the signs of a good flirt is someone who is willing to risk rejection!
• Go to atleast one party a fortnight where you don’t know a single soul! Strike up a conversation with one person who looks interesting to you. The objective is to make future contact, so getting his / her contact number or giving yours is a good beginning.
• Practice intimate, not sexual, body language the next time you have a conversation with someone. Leaning slightly towards a person, using his or her name often, looking directly into the eyes works well. Be a little wary of touching, your intentions may be (mis)understood.
• Practise a warm positive handshake that doesn’t feel like a limp fish or a bone-crusher!
• If you want people to find you interesting, invest in developing yourself. If you can’t do this either, keep visiting the site and we’ll make sure you have enough of dates (and mates)!

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HMMM… FOUND A DATE! WHAT NEXT GUYS?

• Now that special person has just walked into your life and your heart, lungs, lever and a few other organs (dil, jigar, nazar…) have decided to swap places inside you! Go on, don’t just stand there – what are you waiting for? Nervous?? Don’t know how to handle the situation???
• Take these tips, polish and groom those moves and you’re ready to rock ‘n’ roll! Asking her out: the cause for your numerous sleepless nights need not be such a hyped, nail-biting experience, as it is often made out to be.
• The trick is to do it with confidence, not the swaggering kind, but the quiet, secure kind. You could practice a couple of times in front of the mirror. Make the effort, its definitely uncool to presume that the girl is just hangin’ around waiting to be asked by someone like you. So don’t presume that her reply’s gonna be positive. For that matter, no presumptions!
• Ask in a manner which makes her feel special and want to go out with you - If he / she says no, accept it.
• Beware Guys! Don’t ask a girl on a date… “ My GF just dumped me…” with your mouth full of garlic bread.

WHAT IF SHE SAYS “NO”???

Ask one more time, but not as if you’re really shocked how she could turn you down. If the answer is still “No!” back off gracefully… and live to fight another day!

Then if she’s really cute and you can’t get your mind off her; be patient… Ask again! Don’t impose a relationship on her. She may come back to you sometime… Kabhi to kismat chamkegi!

No, No, No. Leave it, yaar! Jaane do!! Lots of other doors to knock at!

BE A HERO IN YOUR DATE…

This too, is pretty crucial. There are two ways to go, planning the entire date out, without consulting the girl, can sometimes offend her rather delicate temperament! But some girls find it appealing if the guy is masterful and has it all decided! See how it goes… The other way is … plan as you go along. Deciding things on the spot can be fun, and a great way to know each other better!

To go off the beaten path… (Unusual dating ideas):

• Walk in the rain.
• Rent a home movie (be sure to select the right one!).
• Walk in the moonlight; drive looking at the stars in an open jeep! How romantic!!
• Cooking a meal together can also be great fun, check beforehand if she likes to cook.
• Baby sit her nephew / niece (get into her heart through the little ones!)
• Clean up / arrange her cupboard / room (at your own risk, you may have to do it for the rest of your life!).
• Help her with her examination preparation. Read a book of poetry together!
• Suggest / discuss with her some dating ideas, etc.

WHAT GIRLS WANT FROM GUYS:

• Be sensitive to her needs. Take this from a guy who’s “been there, done that!” Nothing impresses a girl more than if you ask her what her kinda girl considers to be sensitive touching questions or statements.
• “Here, this seat is warmer…” or the general, “ yes, but what would you prefer?” and of course the all famous, “…and how was your day today?” are nice statements to start with your girlfriend!
• So, if you really want your date to be perfect, drop the STUD act you adopt with your pals and turn on the Mr. Sensitive button, ‘coz that’s what’s going to get the girl!