Mis-understandings

[JerryMag21]

well ... )
oye im very serious with this topic.. everyone know that understanding become misunderstanding.. AS soon as miss enters in the situation..

alright jokes apart..(i just praked it from impossible = i m possible).

wot makes the situation differnet when a misunderstanding comes between 2 lovers and 2 friends? Does culture play any role in it?(our or western one)...

[JerryMag21]

look like everyone got a policy here.. or this thread looked jinxed..

[jastar]

keep it up

[~~Mrs~Tigerjit~~]

ammmm.......................fer jerrymag as a jerry magh means bufflow.........

[jastar]

kya

[~Jamuni~]

If i follow your views fronm the other post, that is lovers should be friends, then i dont see why the situation would be different......but if lovers are not friends then it is complicated.........coz it will be harder from u to understand ur lover's point of view since u dont really understand them that well.....jealousy nd those kinds of things pop up all the time in such a relationship

[JerryMag21]

Originally Posted by h-e-e-r-u-k ammmm.......................fer jerrymag as a jerry magh means bufflow.........

lookin at ur posting rate .. n this reply i can guess how u r incrementing.. keep it low.. will be good for everybody

[JerryMag21]

Originally Posted by shikha If i follow your views fronm the other post, that is lovers should be friends, then i dont see why the situation would be different......but if lovers are not friends then it is complicated.........coz it will be harder from u to understand ur lover's point of view since u dont really understand them that well.....jealousy nd those kinds of things pop up all the time in such a relationship

u r on right path.. dear.. but ok.. didnt i posted that i had numerous fight with my frnd cum love. well that means on misunderstanding only as we hardly argue on each other priorities or choices,infact we develop a sense of respecting them(as the operation maturity is on progress).

i think if lovers are not friends .. still they love something about each other. are those 'things' sufficient to overcome misunderstandings. means they can forget misunder on thier loving 'things' basis.

but in case of friends-cum-lovers i think , they will be sitting and clearing off the misunderstandings and move on with a lesson.

[~Made.In.Punjab~]

I won't go into the friend/love part of the things that you guys are discussing, however Jerry, I will coment on the part cultures may play in misunderstanding.

I believe that in any relationship.. it's important that the two persons know each other well enough to minimize misunderstandings. This applies to both friendships and love, however it becomes more important in love relationships as love is a lot closer relationship for most people than friendship.

Cultures can make it easier or harder to know and understand each other well. I personally think that if both the persons belong to the same culture, it becomes a lot easier to understand where the other person is coming from.

Waheguru Ang Sang Sahayi
Balraj Singh

[JerryMag21]

Originally Posted by sydneychamp I won't go into the friend/love part of the things that you guys are discussing, however Jerry, I will coment on the part cultures may play in misunderstanding. I believe that in any relationship.. it's important that the two persons know each other well enough to minimize misunderstandings. This applies to both friendships and love, however it becomes more important in love relationships as love is a lot closer relationship for most people than friendship. Cultures can make it easier or harder to know and understand each other well. I personally think that if both the persons belong to the same culture, it becomes a lot easier to understand where the other person is coming from. Waheguru Ang Sang Sahayi Balraj Singh

i think for frnds, bothering about each other cultures(or religion specificaly) are not necessary because u got choice of being a part of it or not but its necessary for people in love.
if im not wrong (please tell me),that means lovers have to compromise on some values within religion (or culture). any other alternative.

[.J@tti.]

Avoid using the words 'religion' and 'culture'.

[~Jamuni~]

i agree with J@tti...... using those terms is just going to create controversy......and i dont think that this thread calls for controversy...it is a love thread

[Xx-Gangsta_Jatti-xX]

welll welllll ............sumbdy here has limited vocab..... !!!!

[~Jamuni~]

can u please elaborate?

[JerryMag21]

well guys... please so far i havent seen anyone,here, bragging about culture or religion so far..
contibutors only expressed their view on the original problem.(only those matters).This contoversy thing had spoil my mood (to create more intersting threads here.)fearing culture or religion shud not come in between.