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This is a discussion on ~~ RELATIONSHIP SECRETS ~~ within the Luvadvisor forums, part of the Love Specials category; [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register , Or Login in the login box above.] [Only Registered ...
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| ~~ Cool Cool ~~ | [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.] ANNIVERSARIES Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph. APPRECIATION Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better. BEST FRIENDS B e best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times. BOND Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner. CHANGING EACH OTHER Don't marry an unsuitable person. You'll never change each other. COMPLIMENTS Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted. DIFFERENCES Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them. [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.]
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| ~~ Cool Cool ~~ | [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.] FIGHTS Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight. FLAWS Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws. FUN Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints. GOALS Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite. GRUDGES Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it. HONESTY Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger. KNOW EACH OTHER Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing! [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.]
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| ~~ Cool Cool ~~ | [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.] IDENTITY Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love w/you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship. INDEPENDENCE Having your own income means you're the boss in your life. IN-LAWS Make rooms for the in-laws. INTENTIONS Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst ISSUES Speak up about the awkward stuff now,like money & sex. The earlier, the better. LISTEN Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments. LOOK GOOD Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other. MEMORIES Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories. MIND READING No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind. [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.]
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| ~~ Cool Cool ~~ | [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.] NEEDS Be good to yourself,then be good to your partner. That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy? Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings. Never take your partner for granted. PRIORITIES If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things! SPACE Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out. If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married. SORRY Say sorry when you're wrong. SURPRISES No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad. TEAMWORK Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves. SUPPORT Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together. Two heads are better than one. TALK Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to. [Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.][Only Registered Users Can See Links. Click Here to Register, Or Login in the login box above.]
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| Nature is Awesome | Sneha Thanks for sharing this stuff ![]() These points carry utmost importance in a healthy relationship ![]()
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