~~ Spoiling Innocent Kids .... ~~

[Ice.Cream]

Hellooozzzz Frndzzz

What do u think is Responsible for Spoiling the Innocent Kids

No matter how much the parents stop them ....
like having bad company and stuff but still kids don't stop
they want to hang out .... just coz they want to impress their friends... and be " KOOL "

Also in some cases Parents don't spend enough time guiding kids and giving them the love and attention they need, then they find it through negative means ...

Share your opinion in this regard...

[Run2u_25]

Originally Posted by Ice.Cream Hellooozzzz Frndzzz What do u think is Responsible for Spoiling the Innocent Kids No matter how much the parents stop them .... like having bad company and stuff but still kids don't stop they want to hang out .... just coz they want to impress their friends... and be " KOOL " Also in some cases Parents don't spend enough time guiding kids and giving them the love and attention they need, then they find it through negative means ... Share your opinion in this regard...

ice cream aunty... pehle ih daso aaj ki ho gya hai...
sariya discussions aaj hi kar laniya ne...




anyways...

i think thre are lots of things which are responsible for affecting innocent child's mind not o nly parents...
like movies, teachers, schools etc

movies tell them what is cool guy.. who smokes in style, who drinks
u know when ur hero (movie stars like shahrukh or hrithik ) smoke they look cool.. thats what leads to bad habits..

teachers:- these days parents are so busy with their works coz they want to give a gud quality education.. so they are totally dependent on teachers or schools to tell their children how to differentiate between right & wrong or gud & bad.. teachers shuld tell them abt all these things..

PARENTS:- i think thats their prime duty to take care of their child.. u cant rely on someone to teach your child.. teachers & their elders are doing their duty but they have to be more responsible.. spend some quality time with them..
whatever parents teach them.. they learn more easily.. teach them to diff. b/w good or bad
give so much love & care to your children so that they can realize that they are doing something wrong because their mom or dad says so...



sayad bahut jiyda bol ditta...

[x x UK Girl x x]

theres lotts of things:

*media influences them, looking up to celebrities, thinkin its cool to smoke/drink
* peer pressure
* and phones....10yr olds dont need mobiles!

[RazzPankaj]

Originally Posted by Run2u_25 ice cream aunty... pehle ih daso aaj ki ho gya hai... sariya discussions aaj hi kar laniya ne... anyways... i think thre are lots of things which are responsible for affecting innocent child's mind not o nly parents... like movies, teachers, schools etc movies tell them what is cool guy.. who smokes in style, who drinks u know when ur hero (movie stars like shahrukh or hrithik ) smoke they look cool.. thats what leads to bad habits.. teachers:- these days parents are so busy with their works coz they want to give a gud quality education.. so they are totally dependent on teachers or schools to tell their children how to differentiate between right & wrong or gud & bad.. teachers shuld tell them abt all these things.. PARENTS:- i think thats their prime duty to take care of their child.. u cant rely on someone to teach your child.. teachers & their elders are doing their duty but they have to be more responsible.. spend some quality time with them.. whatever parents teach them.. they learn more easily.. teach them to diff. b/w good or bad give so much love & care to your children so that they can realize that they are doing something wrong because their mom or dad says so... sayad bahut jiyda bol ditta...

22 ji tushi bilkul tik akh rahe ho,

parents r totaly depend on teacher and give so much love their chindrens to realize .............

[Sweeety]

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Originally Posted by Run2u_25 i think thre are lots of things which are responsible for affecting innocent child's mind not o nly parents... like movies, teachers, schools etc movies tell them what is cool guy.. who smokes in style, who drinks u know when ur hero (movie stars like shahrukh or hrithik ) smoke they look cool.. thats what leads to bad habits.. teachers:- these days parents are so busy with their works coz they want to give a gud quality education.. so they are totally dependent on teachers or schools to tell their children how to differentiate between right & wrong or gud & bad.. teachers shuld tell them abt all these things.. PARENTS:- i think thats their prime duty to take care of their child.. u cant rely on someone to teach your child.. teachers & their elders are doing their duty but they have to be more responsible.. spend some quality time with them.. whatever parents teach them.. they learn more easily.. teach them to diff. b/w good or bad give so much love & care to your children so that they can realize that they are doing something wrong because their mom or dad says so... sayad bahut jiyda bol ditta...

I agree with u V!cky
Teachers and Parents should join hands
and become more responsible towards
the children ...

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I would like to share this article I found on net on this topic

There are three big negative consequence of Spoiling our Innocent Children.

First, it fosters addictive behavior. Children fill up from the outside with things and activities rather than filling up from the inside through caring and creativity.

When we offer our children too many toys, too many activities, too much comfort food, or allow too much TV, we are not loving them. We are training them to be addicted.

Another trap is providing things or activities for our children while denying our own needs. It's not loving to children to give in to their every demand, especially if it means putting yourself aside. When you constantly give in to your children and deny your own needs, children learn that it's okay to disregard others needs and be demanding brats.

Children may not learn to consider others if you do not expect them to consider you by considering yourself. They will learn to treat you the way you treat yourself, so it is not loving to your children to disregard yourself. When you disrespect yourself, you teach your children to be disrespectful.
One of the big issues in our society is that children learn to identify their self-worth with others' approval for how they look, how many toys they have and how expensive their clothes are. Unless parents show their children that they value them for their inner qualities -- their caring, creativity, compassion, laughter, joy and passion for life -- rather than for their looks, possessions and performance, children learn to attach their self-worth to others’ approval.

True self-worth comes from inside, from knowing we are valuable for who we are and not for how we look or what we do. Unfortunately, our materialistic society fosters attaching self-worth and lovability to outside approval for things such as a car or a house or clothes. When we "spoil" our children with material possessions, we foster co-dependency on outside approval.

[Run2u_25]

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