The True Story.

[~UnLeAsHeD_GaBrU~]

Hi Every1,
well what i m going to write now is really a true love story of a guy. That guy; let him say BEST is really close to me and i know him really well. Few years back when BEST was completed his grade 10 from INDIA , his parents decided to send him abroad.That time he really start spending time on yahoo chat and there he met a gal on desi retreat . The gal id was brownsugar---etc (i can't give real id ,guy & gal name for some reason) . 1stly they fight alot on net but slowly they got attracted towards each other . They exchange pic's etc on net . mean while his parents send him to CANADA for further studies and he was really happy coz he gonna meet that gal whom he start liking alot. Atlast he reached there and on 2nd day of his visit there , he met her . They really like each other personally and fell in really deep love very shortly. After 1 year & few months gal's parents came to know about their affair and NOW THE PROBLEM OCCURED. as GUY'S FAMILY believe in SIKHISM and Gal's parents beleive in Muslimism. The religion problem occured b/w them but guy was really brave hearted. He decided to marry her in court without permission of their parents and they did the same. The guy also know that his parents love him so much that they will accept this relation when they seen he got married & won't kicked him out and same happened that time.That time gal was 19 and guy was just 18 ( in Canada leagal age for marriage is 18 for both m/f). They got married and now their parents can't seprate them as they got married . when gal's parents came to know , they offer him that he leave his religion & they will accept him as son -of-law.They also offered to leave his parents and they promised him that they will take care of him very well and also promised to provide really good jobin good company there as engg.They also did same with their elder sister husband and they (elder sister & her husband)are living with them (her parents). Atlast guy & gal parents agree for that relation and both decided to come back to india for further education as gal wanna do B.D.S; as we all know in CANADA B.SC should must be completed before doing B.D.S & this is not compalsary in INDIA .So gal wanna save her 3-4 yrs which she have to spend in B.Sc.So Guy decided to come back to india and he drop his skooling there & they came back. Now the real game begin . BOTH parents were start playing games to separate them . Everyday on small small reason fights start occuring at home the guy was really dipressed & he know he can study in such type of Environnment but his wife can't He never want that his wife ever blame on him for securing less marks in class . So he decided to send her away to hostel . she is doing BDS now but he never know this decision was his worst decision of his life as gal strt spending time with her friends there , she stop calling him and when ever he call thay just fight on some topics. She also decided never to come back in guy's life & home ever unless that guy leave that home & go back to CANADA leaving his parents but guy love his parents and decided to choose his parrnts instead of her but he still love her so much. I seen so many times him with wet eyes for that gal . now she is DOING B.D.S there and guy was start taking drugs before but now hemake up his mind that leave on GOD , if she really loved him ever, she will come to him otherwise not and he now trying hard to keep his mind on studies . but still he calls her and thay talk for a bit (min or 2 ) . but not like before anymore. he wants her but don't wanna compromise with his parents. her parents are really happy with that .
what do you think for whom HE leave CANADA , education , career in CANADA now she don't wanna cooprate with him. IS THAT IS LOVE .
WHAT IS A LOVE ?
A FEELING ,ATTACHMENT OR EMOTIONS?
I DON'T KNOW BUT I THINK LOVE IS NOTHING JUST AN ATTCHMENET OF ONE SEX TOWARDS OTHER WHICH DECREASES WITH INCREASING OF TIME SPENDING B/W THEM .

DON'T YOU THINK THIS LOVE SPOILS THAT GUY'S LIFE ?
SEND ME YOUR COMMENTS ON THIS REAL LOVE STORY ..

[Rahul]

Well the thing here is:-
* They hurried upto the marrg big mistake in my opinion.At the age of 18 u start understanding urself how can u understand a big decision like marrg.
*Takin Drugs is never a solution.Trust me on this i ve been there seen dat.Drugs ppl take coz they are weak nd it just makes them weaker.
*To answer whether it was love or not u have to be in a sitn ,There s always two sides of a coin nd always a larger picture.

Rahul

[.J@tti.]

I pity the guy, love exists but very rare, don't take such a big decision in hurry, help to quit drugs, divource the girl, and start living again... Life is too precious to waste on someone who does not deserve it. I know its easier said than done.. but its possible.. Help Him Out..!

[Niki_Grewal]

i agree with Rahul ,,,,they made a mistake of getting married at the age of 18 or 19,,,,,,tht was an impulsive decision,,,,and feel sorry for the guy ,,,,,,,,but as jatti said,,,he shd take a divorce from such gal,,,,,life shd move on......u can't stand on just one point,,,,,i knw its soooo hard to do implement and easy to say,,,,,but nothing is impossible in this world,,,,,so the guy shd try to overcome from all tht...but without the help of drugs.....i knw guys always go towards drugs and drinking aftr the failure of such love relations,,,,,,but its not the solution,,,,it makes things even worse.

[SwEeT_SoNi_KuDi]

awwwww dat is sad...but like evryone said they were too young to get married...u knw believe it or not marriages r only successful when a guy is atleast2-3 older den gal...coz gals get mature ealry then guys do...so if she married a guy who was 1 year younger to her she will think of him as a kid...the way she thinks is much more mature then the way that guy thinks...they have a huge age diff(mentaly) n i think the gal shoould have thought about it b4 marrying him...coz she was da older one in dat relation....but what u can do now is ask da guy to talk to her n clear up everything...n ask wht she wants n take a decision according to dat.

Aniksha

[|24J33\/]

Originally Posted by Sweet_Soni_Kudi awwwww dat is sad...but like evryone said they were too young to get married...u knw believe it or not marriages r only successful when a guy is atleast2-3 older den gal...coz gals get mature ealry then guys do...so if she married a guy who was 1 year younger to her she will think of him as a kid...the way she thinks is much more mature then the way that guy thinks...they have a huge age diff(mentaly) n i think the gal shoould have thought about it b4 marrying him...coz she was da older one in dat relation....but what u can do now is ask da guy to talk to her n clear up everything...n ask wht she wants n take a decision according to dat. Aniksha

Hey didnt get the time to read the whole thing but i disagree from ur point that a boy has to be atleast a year older from the girl for a relationship to workout. Dats not true, may be true to some extent but u cant generalise that fact based on wut u've seen generally. Relationships always work on trust and love for each other apart from other things blah blah blah.Differences are there in the views casue of their psychological difference but they share the same platform of Love.Which is far more important & bigger than their opinions.So they accept each other as how they are.No buts and no ifs.period.

simply u can say they rushed into a relationship. They chose the wrong ones.