Mixed Marriages

[PRi|\|CE$$]

Hi Guys !!! hoping u all are fit n fine !!! well just a little note to ask what are your thought's n comments on Mixed Marriages, curious to know what u all think, lol lol nosey me STAY BLESSED U'ALL

[Xx-Gangsta_Jatti-xX]

ok ....... do u mean same-sex marraiges .... inter - race marraiges

inter-caste marraiges or wattt

plz specify a lil



*repost no. 420*

[GarryLamba]

Mixed Marriages like inter-country i mean both being of different origin. Like me from India and my girl from some foreign country!

Nice topic!! i can think abt it

[PRi|\|CE$$]

Originally Posted by ~~OucH~~ ok ....... do u mean same-sex marraiges .... inter - race marraiges inter-caste marraiges or wattt plz specify a lil *repost no. 420*

To specify a little ok lets say inter-race marriages

[.J@tti.]

lols
inter race marriages.. gotta be tough.. I would never go for it.. for simple reason that a guy from my country can understand my roots better.. he can see where I am coming from.. he knows my values.. other races have different values, different ways of looking at things.. so I don't think I can put up with that.. I am too traditional for that... otherwise it depends on you.. inter racial marriages do happen and some of them are successful too... half brown people are good looking though :X

[PRi|\|CE$$]

Originally Posted by J@tti lols inter race marriages.. gotta be tough.. I would never go for it.. for simple reason that a guy from my country can understand my roots better.. he can see where I am coming from.. he knows my values.. other races have different values, different ways of looking at things.. so I don't think I can put up with that.. I am too traditional for that... otherwise it depends on you.. inter racial marriages do happen and some of them are successful too... half brown people are good looking though :X

Well J@tti thanks i respect ur opinion, although can i just say my belief is that we all are human beings with red blood flowing through our viens, love is love, i respect that u are traditional & pls stay that way , but be open to the fact that yes different cultures behave differently but where there is love inter - race relations can & in my opinion do work its all about cultural sensativity, respect for each other, committment connection, spiritually n emotioally well enough said thanks so very much for ur reply much appreciated. Hugs 2 ya

[.J@tti.]

Originally Posted by PRi|\|CE$$ Well J@tti thanks i respect ur opinion, although can i just say my belief is that we all are human beings with red blood flowing through our viens, love is love, i respect that u are traditional & pls stay that way , but be open to the fact that yes different cultures behave differently but where there is love inter - race relations can & in my opinion do work its all about cultural sensativity, respect for each other, committment connection, spiritually n emotioally well enough said thanks so very much for ur reply much appreciated. Hugs 2 ya

You got good opinions. More open and broad minded than what I am. If such a thing works for you or anybody, I am happy for you

[PRi|\|CE$$]

Originally Posted by J@tti You got good opinions. More open and broad minded than what I am. If such a thing works for you or anybody, I am happy for you

Thanku for being happy 4 me, thanks 4 taking the time to tell me! life is 4 living enjoy ! Blessings 2 ya

[notorious_sharan]

i guess i'd lk 2 agree wth jatti lk she said boy 4m her country wud betta understand her n her culture.bt again lk princess said luv carves da way fo everythg,no matter if da 2 ppl r 4m diff races,wt matterz most is dt dey both luv each ,respect each other n cud adjust wth each other.well i dun thk nethg fussy bout it den!

[~Made.In.Punjab~]

I agree with J@tti on this topic. But I’ll write about it anyway, just to elaborate my views (which are quite in line with what J@tti has already said).

A bit of difference in personality is good for any relationship. It creates room for some learning and mental development for both partners. If both the partners were exactly the same, the relationship will probably become very boring. Having said that, being brought up in different cultures and/or countries creates a huge gap between the two partners. It is easy to say that love caves the path for everything else, but imagine having to explain everything you do to your partner.. there’ll be a question tagged to everything you do or say. It might not be so difficult in those cases where both are born and/or brought up in the same country/environment.

I’ve seen many examples of an Indian marrying a westerner, including one of my closest mates here in Australia.. and majority of them don’t work. In most cases, the lack of commitment and dedication was least of their problems.

Finally, I don’t believe that marriage is the marriage of two persons. I think that with a wedding, two families get married.. new relationships start. The two persons getting married might have the patience and understanding to make it work, but the two families might not. Also, your partner might be able to understand you, but might fail to understand your family..! That is bound to cause problems.. especially in our Indian families where the parents and families are so close and important to both the guy and the gal even after marriage. Communication is another problem. If I was to marry a gal from here (Sydney), I’ll be able to communicate with her perfectly, but my parents won’t. Then why would I want a wife who can’t even have a descent conversation with my family..?

Waheguru Ang Sang Sahayi
Balraj Singh

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main taan jee.........mixed marriage karda nahi...........main taan kisse sohni...sunakhi...sikh...punjaban.....jatti naal hi wyaah karna...........

nahin taan pata lagya ke mixed marriage to baad munde di aankhaan nepali wargiya ne.........bolda punjabi aa.....te khanda chinese aa...........

[PRi|\|CE$$]

Originally Posted by sydneychamp I agree with J@tti on this topic. But I’ll write about it anyway, just to elaborate my views (which are quite in line with what J@tti has already said). A bit of difference in personality is good for any relationship. It creates room for some learning and mental development for both partners. If both the partners were exactly the same, the relationship will probably become very boring. Having said that, being brought up in different cultures and/or countries creates a huge gap between the two partners. It is easy to say that love caves the path for everything else, but imagine having to explain everything you do to your partner.. there’ll be a question tagged to everything you do or say. It might not be so difficult in those cases where both are born and/or brought up in the same country/environment. I’ve seen many examples of an Indian marrying a westerner, including one of my closest mates here in Australia.. and majority of them don’t work. In most cases, the lack of commitment and dedication was least of their problems. Finally, I don’t believe that marriage is the marriage of two persons. I think that with a wedding, two families get married.. new relationships start. The two persons getting married might have the patience and understanding to make it work, but the two families might not. Also, your partner might be able to understand you, but might fail to understand your family..! That is bound to cause problems.. especially in our Indian families where the parents and families are so close and important to both the guy and the gal even after marriage. Communication is another problem. If I was to marry a gal from here (Sydney), I’ll be able to communicate with her perfectly, but my parents won’t. Then why would I want a wife who can’t even have a descent conversation with my family..? Waheguru Ang Sang Sahayi Balraj Singh

Well thanku for this, but some western gals will have the inclination to communicate with ur parents by learning ur language of course where there is a will there is a way u know. In my opinion it can work if all are willing to participate n love each other. once again thanku i realy appreciate u taking the time. Bless ya