27-11-2004, 03:44 PM
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FRESHERS CHECKOUT
Where to begin it all: How, Where, When, What of Lovology…
WHERE: - It could be a place where people of your age sharing similar interests tend to hangout. It may be your vicinity garden or a local restaurant. It’s important to select the right location for the right mood. Hanging around a gym where you can see great looking bodies isn’t a great idea when your most strenuous activity is clicking the mouse or switching TV channels with your remote!
- Try meeting someone in a group at public events. Go to the movies, dinners, parties, a concert or sports event with a group of friends, acquaintances or colleagues… meeting new people when in groups allows you to make new friends without being pressured to date them. In fact, most young people don’t initially date anymore; they just meet someone special, in the company of others! Eventually some may pair-off!
HOW: - A friend or acquaintance can introduce you or set-up a meeting with someone you might like to get to know better. It’s helpful to let your friends be your guide. They may not always choose right, but when they do, it’s a great way to make new friends… and maybe, even find a soul mate in the bargain.
- Go up to someone who catches your eye, and strike up a conversation. That’s often the scariest part of meeting people. But if you are anxious about making the first move, take comfort in the fact that most people are nervous. Even renowned celebrities like Shahrukh Khan are nervous at times, in real life!
- Girls! Don’t be afraid to make the first move… Some of the nicest guys are also the shyest!
- Remember, there are no guarantees. You may be at your wittiest, smartest, zingiest best and he / she may not still bite the bait. Don’t let this faze you. It doesn’t mean that you two didn’t match. After a while, you’ll be able to figure out what kind of people to approach… Practice makes a….
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