13-03-2008, 08:22 PM
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| |  Re: ~~ RELATIONSHIP SECRETS ~~
FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other.
The longer you extend the fight.
The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean.
Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles.
Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.
FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist.
Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her,
there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.
FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.
Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to
get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.
GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals.
It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.
GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.
HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.
KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!
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